jiawei

 I feel that parent may used other methods rather than using spying's method.They can talk to them about what problems they have and try to solve them with their kids.Using spying method not only invaded the kids' privacy,if the kid knew about it it may sour the relationship between the parents and their kids.This may result in quarrels and many more.The kids would properly think that their parent do not trust them anymore and resulting them in doing more bad things.Though i agreed that parent should keep a close watch on their child but they should not watch till too "tight".If i my parent spy on me,i will feel that they do not trust me anymore and therefore resulting in our parent and kids' relationship being soured.The best way i would say is to talk to them nicely and try their best to help their kids solve their problems.This will ensure that the bond and relationship between the parents and kids will strengthen and have many happy moments.